Sunday, July 14, 2013

the last few days

I am going back to work tomorrow from maternity leave/summer. Yikes.

I remember making Anderson's dentist appt. for July back in January and intentionally making it for later in the day because I was worried about getting 2 little people out of the house. Turns out, it is way easier than I predicted. Don't get me wrong, I am rushing all of the time and definitely not super on top of things, but due to necessity, taking care of 2 is not nearly as bad as I expected. (I know that is all going to change tomorrow, but, for now, I am doing ok.)  I have actually been into work a few times over the last month, so this is going to be a pretty smooth transition, I think. I will miss spending every day with them, but I will enjoy being able to use the bathroom by myself. 

 My maternity leave/summer has been pretty awesome. I look back at how much I snuggled Max & I know, without a doubt, that I took full advantage of my first weeks with him. I look back at how much fun Anderson & I have had and I can put a pretty big check mark next to summer fun. Of course there are some things that I would change, mostly just to have more time with them, but I know that they are going off to an even better way to spend their days at Noni's!

Possibly my favorite pic of the 2 of them. I love both of their expressions and how Max is sort of falling into the crack of the cushions. It is rough being the second born. GG bought them these great matching shirts!
We have done quite a bit of swimming in our neighborhood pool and I continue to be amazed at the fact that Anderson actually jumps in and has fun/"swims" on his own! I really love some* parts that come with him as he gets older. (*some...)
Max has also enjoyed the pool. He did not actually stay asleep like that, but it was a nice place to hold him while I put Anderson's goggles on.
We found an awesome open gym for these boys and their crazy energy at Tataru's!
Portrait Innovations is going to be calling me any day to ask for the rights to these awesome shots. What's funny is this is exactly what I wanted-both of them in one picture. I had an $8 for about a zillion pictures coupon and wanted official proof that they both exist, so I considered the outing a success!
I love this kid who I found asleep in his nest of book, trucks, stuffed animals and clutching a little flashlight that GG gave him. ( I really love him a lot when he is asleep.)
We went to Dollywood with Saasha and Sunny!! It was fun because
 A. it is awesome, B.my mom is awesome, C. Sunny is stinking adorable, D. I love day long activities.
Max rocked his first trip! He did not sleep that much (at all) in the stroller, so he did a lot of bjorning and
a lot of hanging with his Noni! It was HOT and this boy is such a trooper!
Another set of cute little shirts from GG!
A visit to Bop at IHOP for breakfast! Sometimes I see the balloon art that he makes and I seriously crack up because if this is not the most random thing in the world, I don't know what is. The man is seriously talented, though.
 We celebrated GG's birthday! (in yet another shirt from her!)
All.day.long.

 Every day Anderson goes to school, all of the little kids gather around Mas & Anderson closes him up, so they can't see. I would like to thing it was protective, but I think it is more selfish.
Perhaps one major thing I will remember from this summer is the RAIN!! We are almost 20 inches over for rainfall already for the year because all it ever does is RAIN. There was so much rain last weekend that Anderson's sandbox doubled as a wading pool.

 Glow stick bath! (the $1 section at Target is my best friend)
Such.a.boy. cape shirt, sword at the ready, surrounded by cars, sort of a confused look on his face...

9 comments:

  1. love it all.
    the portrait innovation pics are just truly awesome. my fave is the bottom left corner, where anderson is looking desperate.
    i love the blurry pic of anderson jumping. pretty much sums it up.
    a glow stick bath is the business.
    my fave is totally the one of him in his bed, surrounded by all his important things. love.

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  2. The boys will miss their Bobble. ( I wonder what Max will call you). You are an awesome mom and made it all look so easy. I love all of you.

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  3. First, before I forget, this is my favorite line of the post:" Sometimes I see the balloon art that he makes and I seriously crack up because if this is not the most random thing in the world, I don't know what is." Our dad makes balloon animals. I mean, OF COURSE he does. But also, what the hell?

    Anderson's expressions. The one of him toward the top (where Max is slowly being eaten by the couch) is the best one...

    ...besides, of course, the portrait innovations ones. I seriously think about them sometimes at night when I can't fall asleep, and I laugh all over again.

    I am still tired from the 45 minute play date we had.

    I saw a certain Scout, from a certain Bobble Cole...

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  4. I just realized I didn't even mention Max. You know I love him, too.

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  5. Melissa,
    I have spent the entirety of yesterday and this morning poring over your blog. I have cried and cried. Then I smiled and smiled a bit more.
    My son was diagnosed with a unilateral cataract this February. We have been patching with a contact lens since March. This is just the start of our seven year journey. Unlike Anderson, we have been told to patch six hours day. I cannot imagine patching any further than that.
    I cry as I type, but your blog has given me such hope. That my son will be three soon and then four and then seven. And this dreadful patch will soon be history. I hate the bloody patch. I hate the hospital appointments. I hate the questions and the explanations.
    Just like you, I am thankful for the blessings in my life. But this happened when I was pregnant and I cannot but help see this as mu fault.

    I do hope to leave a super positive comment on your wonderful blog. Many many congratulations on your beautiful Max.

    You are AWESOME. Keep up the amazing work.
    An iMum from London, UK.

    xxx

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    1. You are AWESOME too!! Melissa is my cousin and is SUCH an inspiration!! Please read her blog whenever you feel like you can't do the patch even one more time-Anderson is proof it works!! And one day your son will thank you for your efforts-he will not look back on this time and have any negative thoughts, ever! I have not had to go through anything like this,ever, but when my father-in-law was dying, my mother-in-law refused to leave his side at the hospital, even though her health was not good either. We tried to hire someone to come in and sit with him so that she could go home and get "good" sleep in her own bed, but she refused. After he did pass away, she told me once she knew that she had made a lot of family members mad being so stubborn. But that she knew that if he had ever had a night where he woke up, needed her, and she wasn't there, she would have regretted it forever. This way, she had no regrets. And regrets are the worst!! So that is why I say, be brave-you will never regret one single second of your effort.

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  6. The jumping picture is just so good. This is my house on any given day.. Two are jumping and the third is laughing at their shenanigans. If he survives them he will be joining them soon. Kyle just adores his big brothers. He smiles when they walk in the room. It is just the best. Boys are wonderful.

    ^^^ A huge hug and a welcome to the iMum from London. It is so hard. The beginning feels like your heart has been ripped out. It is hard to get up in the morning knowing what you are going to face. I don't know if you will see this... But if you do... It does get easier. It is never super easy, but it gets way less hard...

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  7. GLOW STICK BATH!!!!!!!!!! Holy cow. I must try this.

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  8. I was thinking of you this week as you headed back to work... I hope things, routines, kisses good bye and big hugs home are falling into place for you. Reading your blog and this post since Max's birth and into your summer break... I know you enjoyed every single moment, use those moments to fuel you on the hard days. Obviously you inspire me on this ijourney, but you also inspire me to simply just embrace life, the good, the bad, and the crazy! Being a working mom suits you... I think of you on my hard days. Always love all your pics... All the best!

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